WANITA...AKAL SENIPIS RAMBUTNYA

Jangankan lelaki biasa, nabi pun terasa sunyi tanpa wanita.
Tanpa mereka, fikiran dan perasaan lelaki akan resah.
Masih mencari walau ada segalanya.Apa yang tiada dalam syurga?
Namun adam tetap rindukan hawa.

Dijadikan wanita daripada tulang rusuk yang bengkok.
Untuk diluruskan oleh lelaki.
Tetapi seandainya lelaki itu sendiri tidak lurus,
Mana mungkin kayu yang bengkok menghasilkan bayang yang lurus.

Luruskanlah wanita dengan jalan yang ditunjuk oleh Allah,
kerana mereka diciptakan sebegitu rupa oleh Allah.
Didiklah mereka dengan panduan darinya.
Jangan cuba menjinakkan mereka dengan harta,
kerana nantinya mereka semakin liar.
Janganlah hiburkan mereka dengan kecantikan,
kerana nantinya mereka akan semakin derita.
Kenalkan mereka kepada Allah, zat yang kekal.
Di situlah punca kekuatan dunia.

Akal senipis rambutnya, tebalkanlah ia dengan ilmu.
Hati serapuh kaca, kuatkanlah ia dengan iman...
Perasaan selembut sutera, hiasilah ia dengan akhlak.

Suburkanlah ia kerana dari situlah nantinya...
Mereka akan lihat nilaian dan keadilan Rab...
Bisikkan ke telinga mereka bahawa kelembutan bukan suatu kelemahan..
Ia bukan diskriminasi Allah...
sebaliknya di situlah kasih dan sayang Allah...

Wanita yang lupa hakikat kejadiannya...
Pasti tidak akan terhibur, dan tidak akan menghiburkan...
Tanpa iman, ilmu dan akhlak..mereka tidak akan lurus...
Bahkan akan semakin membengkok...
Itulah hakikatnya andai wanita tidak kenal Rabbnya...

Bila wanita menjadi derhaka...
pasti dunia lelaki akan menjadi huru hara....
Lelaki pula janganlah mengharapkan ketaatan semata-mata...
Tapi binalah kepimpinan...
Pastikan sebelum wanita menuju ilahi, pimpinlah diri kepadanya...
Jinakkan diri kepada allah...
Nescaya akan jinaklah segala-galanya di bawah pimpinanmu...
Janganlah mengharapkan isteri semulia Fatimah Az-Zahra'
Seandainya dirimu tidak sehebat saidina Ali karamallahuwajhah.

Mengapa Cincin Pernikahan Harus Ditaruh di Jari Manis

betapa cinta suami isteri akan kekal ke syurga...

1. Pertama, RAPATKAN DAN TEMUKAN telapak tangan anda, jari tengah dibengkokkan ke dalam

2. Kemudian, 4 jari yang lain pertemukan ujungnya.

3. Cobalah membuka ibu jari anda, ibu jari mewakili orang tua, ibujari bley
dibuka karana semua manusia mengalami sakit dan mati. Dengan demikian
orang tua kita akan meninggalkan kita suatu hari nanti.

4. Tutup kembali ibu jari anda, kemudian buka jari telunjuk anda,jari telunjuk
mewakili kakak dan adik anda, mereke memiliki keluargasendiri, sehingga
mereka juga akan meninggalkan kita.

5. sekarang tutup kembali jari telunjuk anda, buka jari kelingking,yang
mewakili anak2. cepat atau lambat anak2 juga akan meninggalkan kita.

6. seterusnya, tutup jari kelingking anda, bukalah jari manis anda tempat
dimana kita menyarungkan cincin perkawinan anda, anda akan compius karana jari
tersebut tidak akan bley dibuka. Karana jari manis mewakili suami dan
istri, selama hidup anda dan pasangan anda akan terus melekat satu
sama lain.Cinta suami isteri kekal abadi

QUOTES OF WISDOM

Ancient Proverb
Give a man a fish, he'll eat for a day. Teach a man how to fish, he'll eat for a lifetime.

Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Benjamin Franklin
God helps them that help themselves.

Dr. James Dobson
Great beginnings are not as important as the way one finishes.

Nathaniel Hawthorne
Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.

Robert Green Ingersoll
Happiness is not a reward - it is consequence. Suffering is not a punishment - it is a result.

Lao-Tze
He who knows others is learned; he who knows himself is wise.

Thomas Jefferson
Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom.

Abraham Lincoln
I don't think much of a man who is not wiser today than he was yesterday.

Thomas Jefferson
I hope our wisdom will grow with our power, and teach us, that the less we use our power the greater it will be.

life quotes

1. Zen Saying
Sit quietly, doing nothing, spring comes, and the grass grows by itself.

2. Ernest L. Woodward
So great has been the endurance, so incredible the achievement, that, as long as the sun keeps a set course in heaven, it would be foolish to despair of the human race.

3. Ralph Waldo Emerson
So much of our time is preparation, so much is routine, and so much retrospect, that the path of each man's genius contracts itself to a very few hours.

4. Samuel Johnson
Some desire is necessary to keep life in motion.

5. Thomas Fuller
Some have been thought brave because they were afraid to run away.

6. Jane Rubietta
Someone may have stolen your dream when it was young and fresh and you were innocent. Anger is natural. Grief is appropriate. Healing is mandatory. Restoration is possible.

7 Stephen Covey
Strength lies in differences, not in similarities.

8. Kenneth Hildebrand
Strong lives are motivated by dynamic purposes.

9. Vincent Lombardi
Success demands singleness of purpose.

10. Booker T. Washington
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.

Inspirational Quotes About Life

1) Billy Graham: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We cannot truly face life until we face the fact that it will be taken away from us.

2) Kahlil Gibran: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.

3) Juvenal: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We deem those happy who from the experience of life have learned to bear its ills, without being overcome by them.

4) Sandra Day O'Connor: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We don't accomplish anything in this world alone... and whatever happens is the result of the whole tapestry of one's life and all the weavings of individual threads from one to another that creates something.

5) Mildred Taylor: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We have no choice of what color we're born or who our parents are or whether we're rich or poor. What we do have is some choice over what we make of our lives once we're here.

6) David Bailey, British Photographer: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We live in deeds, not years: In thoughts not breaths; In feelings, not in figures on a dial. We should count time by heartthrobs. He most lives who thinks most, feels the noblest, acts the best

7) Sir Winston Churchill: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We shall draw from the heart of suffering itself the means of inspiration and survival.

8) Unknown Author: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We teach what we live.

9) William Barclay: Inspirational Quotes about Life
We will often find compensation if we think more of what life has given us and less about what life has taken away.

10) Henry David Thoreau: Inspirational Quotes about Life
Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.

MJ'S this is it

Watched Michael Jackson Movie ‘This is It’ and it was awesome, nice, etc2. He definitely is one talented, gifted singer, dancer and he’s King of Pop! His movie shows how he performs on stage, how he chooses his dancers and the way he organize his moves, dance steps and song is of perfection. The movie duration is 2 hours and he did sing many songs. Can imagine how’s his concert is going to be like. Huu~ He’s 50 but yet he can really dance well! Seriously, the movie was worth watching for me. Liked the way he talks (very soft, oke, sebab suara dier sangat sedap.. ehee~), the way he thinks (he wanted to spread the LOVE to his fans). XD~ Liked the video clips that he prepared for his fans too. Please watch until the screen goes blank because there’s something to watch. Among the songs were ‘Man in the Mirror’, ‘They don’t care about us’, ‘Smooth Criminal’, ‘thriller’, ‘i just can’t stop loving u’, ‘i’ll be there’, ‘black or white’, ‘billie jean’, ‘beat it’, and many more that I couldn’t recall now. He will always be remembered. :)

Law abiding citizen

This movie starts with a family was killed violently by Darby (one of the bad guys name) and only the dad survived. The main actor was Gerald Butler and he acts as Clyde. Clyde wants revenge for her killed wife and daughter and according to the US law system, as Darby testifies against his accomplice, he will only be jailed for 3 – 6 years and his accomplice will end up being sentence to death after 10 years. Clyde unhappy with the punishment by Nick, the district attorney in charge plans to bring about his own justice. After 10 years, he strike back by killing Darby slowly and by using terrifying means. He then kills the person involved in the decision making, the judge, his lawyer, and Nick’s colleagues in order to teach Nick a lesson that he should not make a deal with a murderer. Nick is a person who follows strictly by the rules of thumb and this create loopholes to the law system as crime convict can be freed easily. Nick consulted many people as Clyde was a genius and found out that Clyde’s bought properties connecting to every cell in the jail. He wants to be prison on purpose and create terror among people in the city and this gives stress to Nick. Once Nick reads Clyde’s move, he bring along the last bomb in Clyde’s prison cell and Clyde died in the explosion when he activate the bomb in which he taught to killed higher authority people in security. Phrase I like in the movie was when Nick told Clyde that “It’s not what you know, it’s what you can proof in court”.

Jennifers body

Ok, if people were to ask if Megan Fox was hot in the movie, I would answer “Yep, she is.” But the storyline was ‘so, so’ for me. The story starts by showing Needy in ‘hospital for insane people’ or Hospital Sakit Jiwa. Jen and Needy were BFF until they went to a Low Shoulder band concert in Melody Lane (located at a place named Devil’s Kettle) and something happens. Jen (Megan Fox) was drunk at the time as she follows the Low Shoulder band and she was sacrificed to devils as the band wanted to obtained wealth and popularity using demon’s power. The only thing that the band didn’t know was Jen was no longer a virgin and thus, the demon possesses Jen’s body. In order to survive and stay pretty, Jen needs to feed on humans and she attacks boys. Needy knowing something wrong with Jen made a research and found out that in order to kill the demon; she needs to stab the demon’s heart when she’s hungry. Needy attacked Jen when Jen kills her boyfriend, Chip and manage to kill Jen and the demon. Needy was placed inside the care of other people until she force herself out and kills the members of the Low Shoulder band. The killing was scary and when Megan Fox turns as Hell or the demon, it was a bit scary. =P

tired really...

yesterday is really my unlucky days because a lot of bad things happened.
First at 5.00 am i got emergency wake up call from my company.
One of my machines was caught in burning due to some mistakes from my subordinates.
i'm rushing going to my factory. 4 hour wasting my sleeping time there.
a lot of investigation, interviews need to held to get the clear picture for what have had happened.
When something happened it means extra job for me. i need to write a details report which is the most important things that i hate.
Then going back home. half and hour later, got another call from my friends, he need help from me to send him to airport. but unfortunately on the half way going there, my cas was breakdown..wat unlucky day... then waiting for mechanics towing my car to hos workshop....then spent my time 3 hours there. really tired..

bila cinta bertasbih is ready for download

Final uji bakat itu disiar secara langsung pada 14 September tahun lalu dan setiap peserta diwajibkan mampu mengaji al-Quran dengan baik dan mempraktikkan ajaran Islam dalam kehidupan harian. Promosi filem diarah Chairul Umam ini turut menyebabkan penonton teruja kerana ia diuar-uar sebagai sebuah filem mega dan yang pertama dihasilkan sepenuhnya di Mesir.

Dengan bajet RM14 juta, KCB adalah filem termahal pernah dihasilkan Indonesia. Ia ditayangkan di 148 pawagam seluruh negara, memecahkan rekod filem arahan Riri Riza, Laskar Pelangi yang ditayangkan di 115 pawagam pada 2008. Filem lanjutan, KCB 2 kini dijadual ditayangkan pada 17 September, beberapa hari sebelum sambutan Hari Raya Aidilfitri yang dijangka disambut pada 20 September.

KCB mengisahkan masalah mencari cinta sejati dengan cara Islam. Dalam filem ini, sentuhan fizikal antara lelaki dan perempuan dilarang sama sekali. Watak utama, Khairul Azzam dilakonkan M Cholidi Asadil Alam, seorang pelajar Universiti al-Azhar di Kaherah.

Khairul berasal daripada sebuah keluarga sederhana terpaksa bekerja untuk menyara ibu dan adik-adik perempuannya di Yogyakarta. Beliau juga adalah seorang aktivis dan mengamalkan Islam dalam hidupnya dan kegigihannya itu memikat Eliana yang dilakonkan Alice Sofie Norin, anak duta Indonesia.

Khairul bagaimanapun menolak cinta Eliana dan memilih Anna Althafunnisa yang belum pernah dikenalinya. Watak Anna dilakonkan oleh Oki Setiana Dewi. Anna akhirnya bersetuju mengahwini Khairul tapi dengan syarat beliau berjanji tidak akan berpoligami dan menguatkan hujahnya dengan hadis Rasulullah. Pelakon lain yang turut membintangi filem ini adalah Meyda Sefira dan Andi Arsyil Rahman Putra.

Filem ini bagaimanapun turut menimbulkan persoalan mengenai kaitan antara nilai ajaran Islam dan industri perfileman, Seperti filem lain sebelum ini, Ayat-Ayat Cinta, Kun Fayakun, Mengaku Rasul dan Syahadat Cinta, KCB dihasilkan hasil gabungan antara idealisme dan nilai komersil.

Akibatnya, sesetengah pengkritik menganggap tindakan itu menyebabkan terhasilnya filem yang tidak bermutu tinggi. Namun ada juga pengkritik, seperti ahli sejarah filem, Salim Said yang menganggapnya sebagai ilustrasi generasi lama yang cuba mengumpul keuntungan dengan menghasilkan filem bermutu yang memberi manafaat kepada masyarakat.

Rumusan pengarah filem, Deddy Mizwar mungkin memberi jalan tengah untuk semua. Baginya, tidak semestinya suami dan isteri dalam filem berpelukan untuk tontonan umum. Dalam siri televisyen popular arahannya, Para Pencari Tuhan, seorang pelakon lelaki membuktikan cintanya dengan bersedia menyucikan diri dengan air mata isterinya untuk andai Islam membenarkannya.